We know that keeping things exciting can get harder the longer you’re together. It’s a natural thing… But it doesn’t mean the spark is gone. It just means you have to take some initiative when it comes to bringing back that mystery.
Which is why we love the idea of “secret” date night. They’re sneaky without being deceptive, sly without being creepy, and just clandestine enough to add a little tingle of excitement to your date night… Which is a great starting point for a romantic night together.
Here are some of our favourite secret date night ideas to try. We recommend building a whole date around these activities—the more mysterious you can make it, the better! Or, go all out and build an entire day around all 5 of these options… That’ll get you some serious brownie points!
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Immerse Yourself In a Secret Cinema
Secret Cinema is so much more than just watching a movie together. It’s an immersive experience… So if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to be in a movie, you should definitely try this out!
Book your tickets, and you’ll be directed to a secret website where you’ll find your instructions. Follow them to a T and turn up at the secret location on the specified date… Ready for the experience of a lifetime.
This is your chance to leap into a story world with your favourite person and share a completely unique experience together! If the two of you are movie lovers, then this is a must.
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Get Buzzed At a Secret Speakeasy
Back in the day when alcohol was illegal, speakeasies were underground bars where people could gather to have a drink and socialise.
Today, going to a bar is much less taboo, but if you want to add a mysterious, sneaky twist to your date night, you can find secret speakeasies all over the city… If you know where to look.
We advise doing your research beforehand so you know which doors to look behind or staircases to mosey along up. Pick your secret bar, make sure you know where it is, and surprise your partner with a night out on the (hidden) town.
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Relax In a Secret Garden
Nature can be hard to come by in the city, but if you know where to look, you can surprise your partner with a romantic picnic in a lovely natural setting.
Pack a picnic basket, take a comfy blanket, and bring the camera along, because you won’t find more beauty anywhere else in the city (other than the beautiful person you’re with, of course!).
Do some Googling and pick your garden ahead of time so you can dress the part. Some are well-manicured, expertly-landscaped areas, while others are wild, overgrown jungles ready for exploring.
You can also find secret garden events, like yoga, qi gong classes, meditation, and art classes. You know your person best—pick something that you know they’ll love.
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Logic Your Way Out of a Secret Escape Room
If you want to do something active, fun, and that means working together as a dream team, a secret escape room could be for you. Okay, so these aren’t exactly a big secret, but there’s definitely plenty of mystery involved!
Most escape rooms come with a backstory and a plot, so this is pretty close to living in a novel! Keep in mind that you may need to go searching for escape rooms that allow just 2 of you, or you might want to team up with a few other couples you know for this adventure.
It’s the perfect opportunity to show off your teamwork, finish each other’s sentences, and come out as the “power couple”. If you’re prone to arguing, though, this might not be the thing for you!
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Find a Secret Star-Gazing Spot
The stars definitely aren’t a secret. But places where you can actually get comfy and see the milky way in all its glory… Well, those are a little harder to find. The bright lights of the city really tone down the artwork of the galaxy, so if you’re intent on doing some star-gazing with your loved one, we highly recommend spending a night out in the country.
Your best bet is to view the skies in a National Park—or even better, a Dark Sky park. No lights, no cars, just darkness and clean air. Take a blanket, a tent, and warm clothes… The romance can be ruined if you get cold, although body heat is the best way to warm up in a hurry!
What’s Your Favourite Secret?
Which of these “secret date night” ideas catches your attention? Have some fun together and bring back some of the mystery… Who knows, you might just set a new “secret” tradition! Whatever you choose to do, surprise your loved one with a unique, thoughtful gift or experience that reminds them of how much they mean to you.
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