After much anticipation, Netflix’s third instalment of the binge-worthy thriller series, You, has arrived. Newly married couple Joe (Penn Badgley) and Love (Victoria Pedretti) have moved to the suburbs after welcoming their baby boy to the world. Sounds wholesome, right? Except the couple have committed countless murders between them, taking the phrase ‘what would you do for love?’ to its most sinister lengths.
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The show has come under fire for romanticising serial killers and promoting toxic relationships. But for every critic, there is a staunch fanatic who has fallen for the charms of Joe Goldberg. The alluring ‘bad boy’ has had a mystical hold over women’s attraction for centuries, but when this attraction extends itself to killers, we have to start questioning where this infatuation with the immoral comes from.
You serves as a case study of the phenomenon of hybristophilia: the sexual attraction to people who commit crimes. It feeds into this societal idea that women must use their innate nurturing talents to fix dangerous men. Joe Goldberg is a creepy stalker with a Byronic hero complex. He also tends to murder anyone that stands between him and what, or who, he wants. But none of this has stopped him from gaining a faithful fan club, and many women seem to share this same affinity towards Joe. So is it normal to be attracted to evil?
The show’s star, Penn Badgley, was forced to remind fans that their infatuation with Joe was disturbing.
Ditto. It will be all the motivation I need for season 2. https://t.co/fy2hojauDG
— Penn Badgley (@PennBadgley) January 9, 2019
Whilst the likes of Joe Goldberg, Norman Bates and Tate Langdon are fictional, the obsession with real-life serial killers is just as prevalent and way more disconcerting. From the marriage of infamous killer Ted Bundy to Carole Anne Boone after his incarceration to Richard Ramirez’s marriage to a woman who sent him over 70 letters whilst he was in prison, hybristophilia is very real.
Ted Bundy is probably the most notable example of the cinematic romanticization of serial killers. Regarded as conventionally attractive, Bundy exploited his charm and charisma to lure his victims. He gained a jarring cult following during his trial as his admirers refused to believe that someone they deemed attractive could be capable of such atrocities. The resurgent of his case, depicted countless times in recent media, has disturbingly led to a new generation of admirers.
Joe Goldberg and Ted Bundy have much in common. Badgley described his character as the “peak of white male privilege”, encapsulating why women chose adoration over fear towards these men. People have a certain perception of what killers look like, and it isn’t young attractive white men. This privilege not only aids them in committing their crimes but also helps the killers get away with them. Reactions of admiration feed into the killers’ delusions.
After the crimes are committed, the attraction remains and often gets stronger. But it goes against women’s every survival instinct, so why does it linger? It may feed into the saviour complex, where women believe that their love can cure these men of their insidious need to kill. Or, somewhat narcissistically, that they would be the exception to any future kills. Of course, many of these love affairs begin after the men have been locked up for their crime, suggesting that these women want a dance with danger that poses no threat to their lives. There is a physical barrier between them and the killer. Similarly, an infatuation with fictional men appears harmless because they pose no tangible threat to the real world.
The danger comes when notorious killers lives are brought to the screen in a fictionalised capacity, such as in Extremely Wicked, Shockingly Evil and Vile, American Bogeyman, and My Friend Dahmer. The Dahmers and Bundys become blurred with the Goldbergs and Langdons, existing in a realm that is simultaneously real and fake. Society is deeply affected by both. The arrogant Bundy would have revelled in the attention that he has received since his death, especially as Hollywood continues to cast former teen heart-throbs in the biopics.
So how complicit is Hollywood? Or can this phenomenon be put down to a strange psychological that we can’t seem to shake? Netflix responded to the reaction to Ted Bundy, tweeting:
I've seen a lot of talk about Ted Bundy’s alleged hotness and would like to gently remind everyone that there are literally THOUSANDS of hot men on the service — almost all of whom are not convicted serial murderers
— Netflix (@netflix) January 28, 2019
The production company rightly condemns its audience’s reactions, but Netflix shows no remorse for fuelling the obsession with murderers. Clearly, there’s capital in true crime, and more so for killers who are attractive. As Hollywood continues to glamorize killers, it does a great disservice to their victims, who remain largely neglected in favour of money.
You is a show wherein art reflects life. Entrancing serial killers, like Goldberg, very much exist. The hysteria surrounding the character mimics the reactions to the cases of Bundy, Dahmer and Ramirez, showing just how easy it is to fall for the charm of killers. Their duality exists in extreme opposition: their sadism causes them to kill, but they cover this with a mask of charisma. For Badgley, “the whole point is he’s meant to garner a conflicted reaction.” You’re meant to be beguiled by Joe, just as his victims were.
Whether you see You as providing an insightful social commentary on the reaction to attractive killers, or a disturbing romanticisation of them, it certainly proves to have cultural relevance in an era consumed by true crime. Season 3 is sure to contribute to the conflict, especially now that we have a female serial killer on our hands. But will there ever be a definitive answer to the question: how dangerous is our obsession with the wicked?
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