Finding Your Joy

What makes you truly happy? A walk on the beach, hot chocolate on a cold day, snuggling up in fresh linen. These are all precious moments that make us smile. But we’re going deeper. Right down to your core. What gets you up in the morning? What, in your heart, makes you feel… you 

We were all born with a talent. A skill. A gift. Something we were meant to do. It could be more than one thing (if we’re really lucky). Some people find this in childhood, some later in life and some may never have the opportunity.  

Living a fast-paced life in the Western world gets in the way. We’re conditioned to conform, fit in and behave ‘appropriately’. The dreams we have as a fearless five-year-old may not reach adulthood through limiting beliefs that accentuate over time. We can lose our sense of purpose as the day-to-day takes hold. 

If you’ve found yours – amazing. Keep doing it. Follow your dream and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If you haven’t, there’s always time. It took me a while, and I’m always learning. 

So what’s yours?

It may come to mind straight away. It may be your career, a hobby or both (that’s the golden ticket). You may have to delve into the depths of your childhood. More on this later.  

I love writing. Obviously. But I had to search, with much patience and determination, for the penny to drop. I loved History of Art A level – mainly because the teacher was so good and helped me connect with the symbolism of paintings – and went on to study it at university. I liked the story behind the painting as much as the painting itself. I enjoyed writing about the meaning and depicting my own interpretation. I would sometimes imagine what the artist had experienced to create such a masterpiece. 

I then fell into a job in PR. Not intended. A brilliant career through my twenties and early thirties. I struggled with the writing at first, went on a course and learnt from some amazing mentors. There were many talented writers in both the agencies I worked for. Great for learning, but for someone who spent a bit too much time comparing to others (sound familiar?), I never felt like I matched up to them.  

So when I left my PR career behind to nurture a growing family, the seeds of my life purpose were simultaneously planted. As a freelancer, I gained clients (and confidence) over time and realised writing was for me. Eventually, I did some fine tuning to write solely from the heart. Bringing my passion for health and wellbeing into my work was a major turning point. I know this is what I’m meant to do.  

And because it’s never too late, I’ve recently rediscovered another passion I let slip. I love music and have started playing the piano again. It takes me back to being a child – coming home from school and making up melodies. It always made me feel safe, and I was able to drift into a world of my own. As an adult, taking breaks from writing to compose helps hugely with my creativity. 

'Follow your dream and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.'

It’s never too late

Cast your mind back to childhood. What did you love doing? A team sport, horse riding, music, art. Is there something you did well and didn’t pursue? Pick it up again, you never know where it could lead. 

How do you know?

Time disappears when you’re doing it. I can write for hours, pausing only for mini breaks to charge my brain. It also makes you feel good and gives you that sense of achievement. You look forward to doing it. 

Does your job make you happy?

Are you stuck in a job that makes you think, “What’s the point?”. Believing in the brand or clients you work for is essential for job satisfaction. It shouldn’t feel like a chore. We all have good days and bad days, but if you’re not passionate about the thing you spend most of your time doing, doesn’t that say it all? Remember you have a choice. Change is always possible. It’s up to you. 

Find your niche

You may like certain aspects of your job but not others. Spend some time figuring this out and look at how you could change direction, either by taking the plunge and working for yourself (as many people have been forced into over the past two years) or identifying your skillset and following a diversion. 

It’s often easier to stick with what we know than brave the new. But as we welcome in a New Year, what better time to ruffle things up a little? We all need to find our joy. Yours is unique to you. Find out what it is, and live the life that was destined for you. You won’t look back. 

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